Dildos for Women: Exploring Different Shapes and Sizes

When it comes to male private parts, the general consensus in society is that size matters. Both men and women are inundated with constant messaging, conditioning us to believe that in the bedroom, bigger is always better. But as dildos are essentially sex toys designed to mimic the shape and size of a real penis, does that mean that big, realistic dildos are always better too? And if so, is length or girth more important? And what about straight dildos vs curved ones?  

In this blog post, we will cover some key aspects of dildo size and shapes to help all you women out there understand the different options available to you and choose the perfect dildo for your satisfaction.

What Shapes Do Dildos Come In?

The great thing about dildos is that they come in a huge variety of different shapes so there is definitely a sex toy to fit every woman’s…needs

Phallic Shaped Dildos

One of the most popular shapes for dildos is the classic phallic shape. This shape is straightforward and resembles a real penis, making it an ideal option for women who are new to using dildos or prefer a more traditional look. Phallic shape dildos come in a wide range of styles including ultra-realistic dildos with veins and exposed heads and special phallic dildos with ribs, beads, and other textured shafts for extra pleasure.

G-Spot Dildos

Another popular shape is the g-spot dildo which usually resembles a classic phallic dildo but with a slightly curved or angled shaft. As the name suggests, this shape is designed to target the g-spot which is on the front wall of the vagina. For many women, g-spot stimulation is incredibly pleasurable and can lead to intense orgasms so experimenting with a g-spot vibrator can revolutionise your solo and partner sex toy play.

Double-Ended Dildos

Double-ended dildos are basically two phallus-shaped dildos attached to each other. They are perfect for partner play as both people can use one end each or for solo double penetration. As with standard dildos, double-ended sex toys can be realistic or have textured shafts that are designed for enhanced internal stimulation. 

Anal Dildos

Anal dildos have a very unique which makes them easy and safe to use. The classic anal dildo has a teardrop shape with a tapered tip for smoother insertion. Anal dildos then get wider as you push them in before a wine glass-like stem and base to hold the dildo in place and stop it from being lost inside you. While any shaped dildo can be used for anal play, many women find anal dildos to be the best.

Other Shapes

Additionally, there are other dildos that come in unique shapes, such as bulbs and spirals, as well as a huge host of fantasy dildos shaped like everything from Kraken’s tentacles to unicorn’s horns. These dildos are ideal for women who want to experiment with different sensations and find new ways to enhance their sexual pleasure.

What Sizes Do Dildos Come In?

As with shape, when it comes to size, dildos come in a wide range of options, from small, discreet toys to massive options that will stretch you to your limits. There are ultra-long dildos, ultra-thick dildos and dildos with variable diameters the further you push them in.

So What is the Perfect Size?

When it comes to the ideal size of dildos, as with the size of real penises, it really is down to personal preference. The average penis is thought to be somewhere between 5.1 and 5.6 inches in length but there are dildos which are vastly bigger than this with dimensions that simply cannot be found in the real world of male genitalia. 

In terms of experimentation, if you are new to using dildos or prefer a more subtle option, you may want to start with a smaller size. On the other hand, if you are a self-confessed size queen or you are looking for a more intense experience, then a larger dildo may be the best bet. If you do decide to go with a giant dildo, a little lubricant can really help smooth things along. Lube helps to reduce friction, make insertion easier and increases pleasure. This is particularly important if you are not used to big dildos or you are experimenting with a little anal play.

Final Thoughts

Dildos for women come in a variety of shapes and sizes, so they are the ultimate, versatile sex-enhancing tools. When choosing a dildo, it is important to consider the shape and size that best suits your needs and preferences and to be aware of your limitations. Even so, try to be open and curious about exploring new sensations and finding ways to enhance your sexual experience. With the right dildo, you can experience new levels of pleasure and fulfilment, both alone and with your partner.